Rebekah Staggs

This is a question that is often asked and most people don’t realize how hurtful it can be to some people. Even if they aren’t trying its a very personal question.

How to answer is always a dilemma for the person asked. How much detail do I tell this person? Do they really want to know? Is it going to open up a line of dialog that we’ll both be uncomfortable with?

So here it is:

Q: When are you going to have a kid?. (kids or another child)

A: We’re not on a schedule. It’ll happen for us when the time is right.

Short. Simple. No need to give details.

What can I say? I gave in. Seems everyone has a blog these days. So here we go.